The power of a question

When obstacles began making a habit of obstructing my path, I had to start asking myself why? Then, a they began to emerge. Those obstacles slowly began become more manageable. They are still there at present, yet I was asking the wrong questions before. "Why me?" and "What's her problem?" are simply unproductive. Why? These questions are asked in a judgmental tone. They are there to vent frustration. Asking an open minded question with a willingness to accept and act on the information received allows for the growth necessary to move on and become better.